Ladies, we have had a difficult time as the so-called “weaker” sex. Yes, we don’t have the same upper body strength –but we are only weaker in life if we allow ourselves to be.
One of the biggest ways in which I say women screw up their relationships is that they believe the great social lie that says that we are only powerful if we are strong in the ways men are. In other words, we have to be in control, we have to earn more money and call the shots.
The problem is that control is a false illusion AND, ladies, we are never happy this way. We aren’t happy in our relationships, we then don’t feel loved or fulfilled.
Of course not – at that point we are women trying to be men and we are not made happy by what makes a man happy!
We confuse the way women have been mistreated with what will make us happy. However, look at yourself or a girlfriend you know who is controlling. It’s no fun! When we are in control, we can’t trust others to do things and we can’t allow others to also be responsible with us. So, we tend to also control our relationships – but that only causes our own unhappiness.
If you are experiencing a relationship in which you feel as though your man isn’t man enough, he doesn’t make you feel loved and he doesn’t behave the way a man should, then check yourself. It is quite common these days for women to try to behave and be powerful like a man and to lose herself, her energy and happiness as she does. Sure, she might be successful at it, but at what cost?
Ladies, it’s time to find power in our true power, our feminine flow. There is always a flow of energy. Law of attraction is always responding to our flow. When we are trying to be a man, we are in a masculine flow – and law of attraction then responds to that masculine energy in us. It brings us things that we don’t want, like a man who looks to us to set every aspect of our date. It removes the night in shinning armor from our lives.
On the other hand, ladies, when you tap into the more powerful flow – the feminine flow of energy- you change everything. Law of attraction then responds to the energy that you truly are. In our feminine flow, we bring the mountain to us – efforting less. We feel more capable, not so energetically drained and the man in our life has room to be the man. Law of attraction can then allow you, as the feminine, to attract the night in shinning armor. It’s not because we give up control of our lives and become passive- please, no!
That’s not feminine power. Feminine energy has it’s power – not control- and it allows the man in your life to do things to make you happy. It allows you to bring mountains to you – and that is true feminine power that allows so many more things to come her way – and make her truly happy.
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