How do you define success in relationship?
Romance? Dedication and devotion from the other person? A lasting and meaningful relationship?
Hi, I’m Kalyn, your Abundance Coach. I believe in abundance and it comes in all forms such as love. I have an abundance of love in my life and I think you should too.
You deserve love in your life and in this video I’m going to tell you the secret to creating the relationship you desire.
First, a little about me and the abundance of love in my life:
When I was in 8th grade, so around the age of 14, I had an 8 month relationship which began a string of relationships. In high school I had a year-long relationships or longer. My girlfriends couldn’t understand why they couldn’t get boyfriends or have relationships last while I had boyfriends who were dedicated to me. Can you imagine? Looking back, I can’t imagine dedicated teenaged boys, and yet that was my experience. In other words, love is attainable, set your sights on it!
I have spent all of my adult life in relationships. At one point in college, I prided myself on the fact that the longest time I spent single was a month. Seems like a silly thing to pride myself looking back, but my point is that I know the secret to a loving relationship which has lead to my marriage. And, I’v been married for 16 years.

THE SECRET – Two Things Today

The first thing I want you to do is consider changing how you see relationship. You relate with everyone, your friends, people at work… you want more than a relationship- YOU WANT A SPIRITUAL PARTNERSHIP.
In a spiritual partnership you share your authentic self, all that you are. Your energies come together, not just your lives, so you are more vested – it means more to you. You share who you are and bring love and your best into the spiritual partnership. In a spiritual partnership, you both agree to honor yourself and each other. Your mindset is one of sharing your life, your soul and your dreams. You share your inner being or your inner light. You uplift one another and together you reach heights you couldn’t reach on your own.
Even if you don’t know how to do some of these things, the most important thing is to recognize that there is another way to think of relationship that you can start to reach for. You can switch and seek a spiritual partner in your current relationship or in what you are attracting to your life.
It’s not just relating, it’s creating something divine and special – to you and for you.

The SECOND SECRET is about having your PRIORITIES in place.

You are your first priority. You rely on yourself to make yourself happy, to make your life full. I love my life. I like to feel like I’ve done my best and had a great day when I put my head on the pillow at night. I love waking up excited about what I’m going to do, about what I can experience and be that day.
I’m my first priority. It fills my cup and causes it to overflow so that I have so much to share and bring to my spiritual partnership. I’m me and I allow myself to have my hopes, dreams and desires. I allow myself to know what’s important to me and to go after it.
My second priority is my spiritual partnership or love in my life. In my marriage, I’m not an “I” but a “we” – we all want to be included and cared for, and this mindset creates space for that inclusion and caring.
This means that I think about my husband’s wellbeing and his dreams – and I honor these. We treat each other with grace, love and encouragement. We don’t judge the other or tell them how they should be but rather focus on what we like, love or admire in the other. We see the potential in one another and seek to enjoy and share our dreams and our lives. We are a team working together on common goals.
When you are in the flow, things always work and fit together – without your having to make them fit or work. Because we are in a spiritual partnership, there is never the feeling that only one of us gets things or that if we have to take turns doing or receiving things. On the contrary, we’re always both receiving in life and what we receive or desire works together. This comes from our choosing to be in a spiritual partnership: just the choice blends our energies. Together we receive more of everything – more abundance, more of our dreams coming true and we experience more joy and fulfillment in our lives and in our relationship.
You can do the same. It happens when you choose to share who you authentically are. It happens when you decide that you don’t want just a relationship, but a spiritual partnership. It all flows effortlessly when your priorities are in place.
Here’s to your loving and successful spiritual partnership!